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Volume 7 - Book 62 - Wedlock,
Marriage (Nikaah)
Volume 7, Book 62, Number 1:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: A group of three men came to the
houses of the wives of the Prophet asking how the Prophet worshipped
(Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their
worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet as his past
and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer
the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast
throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will
keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Apostle came
to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I
am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and
break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow
my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 2:
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Narrated 'Ursa: that he asked 'Aisha about the Statement
of Allah: 'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the
orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three or four;
but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then
only one, or (the captives) that your right hands possess. That will be
nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.' (4.3) 'Aisha said, "O my
nephew! (This Verse has been revealed in connection with) an orphan girl
under the guardianship of her guardian who is attracted by her wealth and
beauty and intends to marry her with a Mahr less than what other women of
her standard deserve. So they (such guardians) have been forbidden to marry
them unless they do justice to them and give them their full Mahr, and they
are ordered to marry other women instead of them."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 3:
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Narrated 'Alqama: While I was with Abdullah, 'Uthman met
him at Mina and said, "O Abu 'Abdur-Rahman ! I have something to say to
you." So both of them went aside and 'Uthman said, "O Abu 'Abdur-Rah. man!
Shall we marry you to a virgin who will make you remember your past days?"
When 'Abdullah felt that he was not in need of that, he beckoned me (to join
him) saying, "O 'Alqama!" Then I heard him saying (in reply to 'Uthman), "As
you have said that, (I tell you that) the Prophet once said to us, 'O young
people! Whoever among you is able to marry, should marry, and whoever is not
able to marry, is recommended to fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual
power.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 4:
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Narrated 'Abdullah: We were with the Prophet while we
were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah's Apostle said, "O young
people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him
lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing
illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should
fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 5:
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Narrated 'Ata: We presented ourselves along with Ibn
'Abbas at the funeral procession of Maimuna at a place called Sarif. Ibn
'Abbas said, "This is the wife of the Prophet so when you lift her bier, do
not Jerk it or shake it much, but walk smoothly because the Prophet had nine
wives and he used to observe the night turns with eight of them, and for one
of them there was no night turn."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 6:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet I used to go round (have
sexual relations with) all his wives in one night, and he had nine wives.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 7:
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Narrated Said bin Jubair: Ibn 'Abbas asked me, "Are you
married?" I replied, "No." He said, "Marry, for the best person of this
(Muslim) nation (i.e., Muhammad) of all other Muslims, had the largest
number of wives."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 8:
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Narrated 'Umar bin Al-Khattab: The Prophet said, "The
rewards (of deeds) are according to the intention, and everybody will get
the reward for what he has intended. So whoever emigrated for Allah's and
His Apostle's sake, his emigration was for Allah and His Apostle; and
whoever emigrated for worldly benefits, or to marry a woman, then his
emigration was for the thing for what he emigrated for." (1)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 9:
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Narrated Ibn Masud: We used to fight in the holy battles
in the company of the Prophet and we had no wives with us. So we said, "O
Allah's Apostle! Shall we get castrated?" The Prophet forbade us to do so.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 10:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf came
(from Mecca to Medina) and the Prophet made a bond of brotherhood between
him and Sad bin Ar-Rabi' Al-Ansari. Al-Ansari had two wives, so he suggested
that 'Abdur-Rahman take half, his wives and property. 'Abdur-Rahman replied,
"May Allah bless you with your wives and property. Kindly show me the
market." So 'Abdur-Rahman went to the market and gained (in bargains) some
dried yoghurt and some butter. After a few days the Prophet saw Abdur-Rahman
with some yellow stains on his clothes and asked him, "What is that, O
'Abdur-Rahman?" He replied, "I had married an Ansari woman." The Prophet
asked, "How much Mahr did you give her?" He replied, "The weight of one
(date) stone of gold." The Prophet said, "Offer a banquet, even with one
sheep."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 11:
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Narrated Sad bin Abi Waqqas: Allah's Apostle forbade
'Uthman bin Maz'un to abstain from marrying (and other pleasures) and if he
had allowed him, we would have gotten ourselves castrated.(1)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 12:
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Narrated Sad bin Abi Waqqas: The Prophet prevented
'Uthman bin Mazun from that (not marrying), and had he allowed him, we would
have got ourselves castrated.(1)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13o:
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Narrated 'Abdullah: We used to participate in the holy
battles led by Allah's Apostle and we had nothing (no wives) with us. So we
said, "Shall we get ourselves castrated?" He forbade us that and then
allowed us to marry women with a temporary contract (2) and recited to us:
-- 'O you who believe ! Make not unlawful the good things which Allah has
made lawful for you, but commit no transgression.' (5.87)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13h:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! I am a
young man and I am afraid that I may commit illegal sexual intercourse and I
cannot afford to marry." He kept silent, and then repeated my question once
again, but he kept silent. I said the same (for the third time) and he
remained silent. Then repeated my question (for the fourth time), and only
then the Prophet said, "O Abu Huraira! The pen has dried after writing what
you are going to confront. So (it does not matter whether you) get yourself
castrated or not."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 14:
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Narrated 'Aisha : I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Suppose you
landed in a valley where there is a tree of which something has been eaten
and then you found trees of which nothing has been eaten, of which tree
would you let your camel graze?" He said, "(I will let my camel graze) of
the one of which nothing has been eaten before." (The sub-narrator added:
'Aisha meant that Allah's Apostle had not married a virgin besides herself
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 15:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle said (to me), "You have
been shown to me twice in (my) dreams. A man was carrying you in a silken
cloth and said to me, 'This is your wife.' I uncovered it; and behold, it
was you. I said to myself, 'If this dream is from Allah, He will cause it to
come true.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 16:
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Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah: While we were returning from
a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as
it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear
he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel
you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet himself. He said, 'What makes
you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly married " He said, "Did you
marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you
marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?" When we
were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet said, "Wait so that you may enter
(Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the
one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 17:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's
Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have
married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and
for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you
marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 18:
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Narrated 'Ursa: The Prophet asked Abu Bakr for 'Aisha's
hand in marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother." The Prophet said,
"You are my brother in Allah's religion and His Book, but she (Aisha) is
lawful for me to marry."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 19:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "The best women
are the riders of the camels and the righteous among the women of Quraish.
They are the kindest women to their children in their childhood and the more
careful women of the property of their husbands."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 20:
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Narrated Abu Burda's father: Allah's Apostle said, any
man who has a slave girl whom he educates properly, teaches good manners,
manumits and marries her, will get a double reward And if any man of the
people of the Scriptures believes in his own prophet and then believes in me
too, he will (also) get a double reward And any slave who fulfills his duty
to his master and to his Lord, will (also) get a double reward."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 21:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said: Abraham did not
tell lies except three. (One of them was) when Abraham passed by a tyrant
and (his wife) Sara was accompanying him (Abu Huraira then mentioned the
whole narration and said:) (The tyrant) gave her Hajar. Sara said, "Allah
saved me from the hands of the Kafir (i.e. infidel) and gave me Hajar to
serve me." (Abu Huraira added:) That (Hajar) is your mother, O Banu
Ma'-As-Sama' (i.e., the Arabs).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 22:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet stayed for three days between
Khaibar and Medina, and there he consummated his marriage to Safiyya bint
Huyai. I invited the Muslims to the wedding banquet in which neither meat
nor bread was offered. He ordered for leather dining-sheets to be spread,
and dates, dried yoghurt and butter were laid on it, and that was the
Prophet's wedding banquet. The Muslims wondered, "Is she (Saffiyya)
considered as his wife or his slave girl?" Then they said, "If he orders her
to veil herself, she will be one of the mothers of the Believers; but if he
does not order her to veil herself, she will be a slave girl. So when the
Prophet proceeded from there, he spared her a space behind him (on his
she-camel) and put a screening veil between her and the people.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 23:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: Allah's Apostle manumitted
Safiyya and regarded her manumission as her Mahr.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 24:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad As-Sa'idi: A woman came to Allah's
Apostle and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have come to give you myself in
marriage (without Mahr)." Allah's Apostle looked at her. He looked at her
carefully and fixed his glance on her and then lowered his head. When the
lady saw that he did not say anything, she sat down. A man from his
companions got up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! If you are not in need of
her, then marry her to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything to
offer?" The man said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet said
(to him), "Go to your family and see if you have something." The man went
and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, I have not found anything." Allah's
Apostle said, "(Go again) and look for something, even if it is an iron
ring." He went again and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Apostle!
I could not find even an iron ring, but this is my Izar (waist sheet)." He
had no rida. He added, "I give half of it to her." Allah's Apostle said,
"What will she do with your Izar? If you wear it, she will be naked, and if
she wears it, you will be naked." So that man sat down for a long while and
then got up (to depart). When Allah's Apostle saw him going, he ordered that
he be called back. When he came, the Prophet said, "How much of the Quran do
you know?" He said, "I know such Sura and such Sura," counting them. The
Prophet said, "Do you know them by heart?" He replied, "Yes." The Prophet
said, "Go, I marry her to you for that much of the Quran which you have."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 25:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Abu Hudhaifa bin 'Utba bin Rabi'a bin
Abdi Shams who had witnessed the battle of Badr along with the Prophet
adopted Salim as his son, to whom he married his niece, Hind bint Al-Walid
bin 'Utba bin Rabi'a; and Salim was the freed slave of an Ansar woman, just
as the Prophet had adopted Zaid as his son. It was the custom in the
Pre-lslamic Period that if somebody adopted a boy, the people would call him
the son of the adoptive father and he would be the latter's heir. But when
Allah revealed the Divine Verses: 'Call them by (the names of) their fathers
. . . your freed-slaves,' (33.5) the adopted persons were called by their
fathers' names. The one whose father was not known, would be regarded as a
Maula and your brother in religion. Later on Sahla bint Suhail bin 'Amr
Al-Quraishi Al-'Amiri--and she was the wife of Abu- Hudhaifa bin 'Utba--came
to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! We used to consider Salim as
our (adopted) son, and now Allah has revealed what you know (regarding
adopted sons)." The sub-narrator then mentioned the rest of the narration.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 26:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle entered upon Dubaa bint
Az-Zubair and said to her, "Do you have a desire to perform the Hajj?" She
replied, "By Allah, I feel sick." He said to her, "Intend to perform Hajj
and stipulate something by saying, 'O Allah, I will finish my Ihram at any
place where You stop me (i.e. I am unable to go further)." She was the wife
of Al-Miqdad bin Al-Aswad.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A woman is
married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and
her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will
be a losers.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 28:
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Narrated Sahl: A man passed by Allah's Apostle and Allah
s Apostle asked (his companions) "What do you say about this (man)?" They
replied "If he asks for a lady's hand, he ought to be given her in marriage;
and if he intercedes (for someone) his intercessor should be accepted; and
if he speaks, he should be listened to." Allah's Apostle kept silent, and
then a man from among the poor Muslims passed by, an Allah's Apostle asked
(them) "What do you say about this man?" They replied, "If he asks for a
lady's hand in marriage he does not deserve to be married, and he intercedes
(for someone), his intercession should not be accepted; And if he speaks, he
should not be listened to.' Allah's Apostle said, "This poor man is better
than so many of the first as filling the earth.'
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 29:
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Narrated 'Ursa: that he asked 'Aisha regarding the Verse:
'If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans
(4.3) She said, "O my nephew! This Verse refers to the orphan girl who is
under the guardianship of her guardian who likes her beauty and wealth and
wishes to (marry her and) curtails her Mahr. Such guardians have been
forbidden to marry them unless they do justice by giving them their full
Mahr, and they have been ordered to marry other than them. The people asked
for the verdict of Allah's Apostle after that, so Allah revealed: 'They ask
your instruction concerning the women . . . whom you desire to marry.'
(4.127) So Allah revealed to them that if the orphan girl had beauty and
wealth, they desired to marry her and for her family status. They can only
marry them if they give them their full Mahr. And if they had no desire to
marry them because of their lack of wealth and beauty, they would leave them
and marry other women. So, as they used to leave them, when they had no
interest, in them, they were forbidden to marry them when they had such
interest, unless they treated them justly and gave them their full Mahr
Apostle said, 'If at all there is evil omen, it is in the horse, the woman
and the house." a lady is to be warded off. And the Statement of Allah:
'Truly, among your wives and your children, there are enemies for you (i.e
may stop you from the obedience of Allah)' (64.14)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 30:
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Narrated Abdullah bin 'Umar: Allah's Apostle said, "Evil
omen is in the women, the house and the horse.'
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 31:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar: Evil omen was mentioned before the
Prophet: The Prophet said, "If there is evil omen in anything, it is in the
house, the woman and the horse."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 32:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: Allah's Apostle said, "If at all
there is bad omen, it is in the horse, the woman, and the house."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 33:
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Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet said, "After me I
have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 34:
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Narrated 'Aisha : Three principles were established
because of Barira: (i) When Banra was manumitted she was given the option
(to remain with her slave husband or not). (ii) Allah's Apostle said "The
Wala of the slave) is for the one who manumits (the slave). (iii) When
Allah's Apostle entered (the house), he saw a cooking pot on the fire but he
was given bread and meat soup from the soup of the home. The Prophet said,
"Didn't I see the cooking pot (on the fire)?" It was said, "That is the meat
given in charity to Barira, and you do not eat the (things given in)
charity." The Prophet said, "It is an object of charity for Barira, and it
is a present for us."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 35:
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Narrated Aisha" (regarding) the Verse: 'And if you fear
that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans...' (4.3) It is
about the orphan girl who is in the custody of a man who is her guardian,
and he intends to marry her because of her wealth, but he treats her badly
and does not manage her property fairly and honestly. Such a man should
marry women of his liking other than her, two or three or four. 'Prohibited
to you (for marriage) are: ...your foster-mothers (who suckled you).' (4.23)
Marriage is prohibited between persons having a foster suckling relationship
corresponding to a blood relationship which renders marriage unlawful.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 36:
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Narrated 'Aisha: (the wife of the Prophet) that while
Allah's Apostle was with her, she heard a voice of a man asking permission
to enter the house of Hafsa. 'Aisha added: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! This
man is asking permission to enter your house." The Prophet said, "I think he
is so-and-so," naming the foster-uncle of Hafsa. 'Aisha said, "If
so-and-so," naming her foster uncle, "were living, could he enter upon me?"
The Prophet said, "Yes, for foster suckling relations make all those things
unlawful which are unlawful through corresponding birth (blood) relations."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 37:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: It was said to the Prophet, "Won't
you marry the daughter of Hamza?" He said, "She is my foster niece
(brother's daughter). "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 38:
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Narrated Um Habiba: (daughter of Abu Sufyan) I said, "O
Allah's Apostle! Marry my sister. the daughter of Abu Sufyan." The Prophet
said, "Do you like that?" I replied, "Yes, for even now I am not your only
wife and I like that my sister should share the good with me." The Prophet
said, "But that is not lawful for me." I said, We have heard that you want
to marry the daughter of Abu Salama." He said, "(You mean) the daughter of
Um Salama?" I said, "Yes." He said, "Even if she were not my step-daughter,
she would be unlawful for me to marry as she is my foster niece. I and Abu
Salama were suckled by Thuwaiba. So you should not present to me your
daughters or your sisters (in marriage)." Narrated 'Ursa; Thuwaiba was the
freed slave girl of Abu Lahb whom he had manumitted, and then she suckled
the Prophet. When Abu Lahb died, one of his relatives saw him in a dream in
a very bad state and asked him, "What have you encountered?" Abu Lahb said,
"I have not found any rest since I left you, except that I have been given
water to drink in this (the space between his thumb and other fingers) and
that is because of my manumitting Thuwaiba."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 39:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet entered upon her while
a man was sitting with her. Signs of anger seemed to appear on his face as
if he disliked that. She said, "Here is my (foster) brother." He said, "Be
sure as to who is your foster brother, for foster suckling relationship is
established only when milk is the only food of the child."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 40:
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Narrated Aisha: that Aflah the brother of Abu Al-Qu'ais,
her foster uncle, came, asking permission to enter upon her after the Verse
of Al-Hijab (the use of veils by women) was revealed. 'Aisha added: I did
not allow him to enter, but when Allah's Apostle came, I told him what I had
done, and he ordered me to give him permission.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 41:
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Narrated 'Uqba bin Al-Harith: I married a woman and then
a black lady came to us and said, "I have suckled you both (you and your
wife)." So I came to the Prophet and said, "I married so-and-so and then a
black lady came to us and said to me, 'I have suckled both of you.' But I
think she is a liar." The Prophet turned his face away from me and I moved
to face his face, and said, "She is a liar." The Prophet said, "How (can you
keep her as your wife) when that lady has said that she has suckled both of
you? So abandon (i.e., divorce) her (your wife)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 42:
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Narrated Um Habiba: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Do you
like to have (my sister) the daughter of Abu Sufyan?" The Prophet said,
"What shall I do (with her)?" I said, "Marry her." He said, "Do you like
that?" I said, "(Yes), for even now I am not your only wife, so I like that
my sister should share you with me." He said, "She is not lawful for me (to
marry)." I said, "We have heard that you want to marry." He said, "The
daughter of Um Salama?" I said, "Yes." He said, "Even if she were not my
stepdaughter, she should be unlawful for me to marry, for Thuwaiba suckled
me and her father (Abu Salama). So you should neither present your
daughters, nor your sisters, to me."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 43:
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Narrated Um Habiba: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry my
sister, the daughter of Abu Sufyan." He said, "Do you like that?" I said,
"Yes, for even now I am not your only wife; and the most beloved person to
share the good with me is my sister." The Prophet said, "But that is not
lawful for me (i.e., to be married to two sisters at a time.)" I said, "O
Allah's Apostle! By Allah, we have heard that you want to marry Durra, the
daughter of Abu Salama." He said, "You mean the daughter of Um Salama?" I
said, "Yes." He said, "By Allah ! Even if she were not my stepdaughter, she
would not be lawful for me to marry, for she is my foster niece, for
Thuwaiba has suckled me and Abu Salama; so you should neither present your
daughters, nor your sisters to me."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 44:
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Narrated Jabir: Allah's Apostle forbade that a woman
should be married to man along with her paternal or maternal aunt.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 45:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "A woman and
her paternal aunt should not be married to the same man; and similarly, a
woman and her maternal aunt should not be married to the same man."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 46:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet forbade that a woman
should be married to a man along with her paternal aunt or with her maternal
aunt (at the same time). Az-Zuhri (the sub-narrator) said: There is a
similar order for the paternal aunt of the father of one's wife, for 'Ursa
told me that 'Aisha said, "What is unlawful because of blood relations, is
also unlawful because of the corresponding foster suckling relations."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 47:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar : Allah's Apostle forbade Ash-Shighar,
which means that somebody marries his daughter to somebody else, and the
latter marries his daughter to the former without paying Mahr.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 48:
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Narrated Hisham's father: Khaula bint Hakim was one of
those ladies who presented themselves to the Prophet for marriage. 'Aisha
said, "Doesn't a lady feel ashamed for presenting herself to a man?" But
when the Verse: "(O Muhammad) You may postpone (the turn of) any of them
(your wives) that you please,' (33.51) was revealed, " 'Aisha said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! I do not see, but, that your Lord hurries in pleasing you.'
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 49:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet got married while he was
in the state of Ihram.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 50:
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Narrated 'Ali: I said to Ibn 'Abbas, "During the battle
of Khaibar the Prophet forbade (Nikah) Al-Mut'a and the eating of donkey's
meat."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 51:
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Narrated Abu Jamra: I heard Ibn Abbas (giving a verdict)
when he was asked about the Mut'a with the women, and he permitted it
(Nikah-al-Mut'a). On that a freed slave of his said to him, "That is only
when it is very badly needed and women are scarce." On that, Ibn 'Abbas
said, "Yes."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 52:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah and Salama bin Al-Akwa':
While we were in an army, Allah's Apostle came to us and said, "You have
been allowed to do the Mut'a (marriage), so do it." Salama bin Al-Akwa'
said: Allah's Apostle's said, "If a man and a woman agree (to marry
temporarily), their marriage should last for three nights, and if they like
to continue, they can do so; and if they want to separate, they can do so."
I do not know whether that was only for us or for all the people in general.
Abu Abdullah (Al-Bukhari) said: 'Ali made it clear that the Prophet said,
"The Mut'a marriage has been cancelled (made unlawful)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 53:
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Narrated Thabit Al-Banani: I was with Anas while his
daughter was present with him. Anas said, "A woman came to Allah's Apostle
and presented herself to him, saying, 'O Allah's Apostle, have you any need
for me (i.e. would you like to marry me)?' "Thereupon Anas's daughter said,
"What a shameless lady she was ! Shame! Shame!" Anas said, "She was better
than you; she had a liking for the Prophet so she presented herself for
marriage to him."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 54:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: A woman presented herself to the
Prophet (for marriage). A man said to him, "O Allah's Apostle! (If you are
not in need of her) marry her to me." The Prophet said, "What have you got?"
The man said, "I have nothing." The Prophet said (to him), "Go and search
for something) even if it were an iron ring." The man went and returned
saying, "No, I have not found anything, not even an iron ring; but this is
my (Izar) waist sheet, and half of it is for her." He had no Rida' (upper
garment). The Prophet said, "What will she do with your waist sheet? If you
wear it, she will have nothing over her; and if she wears it, you will have
nothing over you." So the man sat down and when he had sat a long time, he
got up (to leave). When the Prophet saw him (leaving), he called him back,
or the man was called (for him), and he said to the man, "How much of the
Quran do you know (by heart)?" The man replied I know such Sura and such
Sura (by heart)," naming the Suras The Prophet said, "I have married her to
you for what you know of the Quran "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 55:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar : 'Umar bin Al-Khattab said,
"When Hafsa bint 'Umar became a widow after the death of (her husband)
Khunais bin Hudhafa As-Sahmi who had been one of the companions of the
Prophet, and he died at Medina. I went to 'Uthman bin 'Affan and presented
Hafsa (for marriage) to him. He said, "I will think it over.' I waited for a
few days, then he met me and said, 'It seems that it is not possible for me
to marry at present.' " 'Umar further said, "I met Abu Bakr As-Siddique and
said to him, 'If you wish, I will marry my daughter Hafsa to you." Abu Bakr
kept quiet and did not say anything to me in reply. I became more angry with
him than with 'Uthman. I waited for a few days and then Allah's Apostle
asked for her hand, and I gave her in marriage to him. Afterwards I met Abu
Bakr who said, 'Perhaps you became angry with me when you presented Hafsa to
me and I did not give you a reply?' I said, 'Yes.' Abu Bakr said, 'Nothing
stopped me to respond to your offer except that I knew that Allah's Apostle
had mentioned her, and I never wanted to let out the secret of Allah's
Apostle. And if Allah's Apostle had refused her, I would have accepted her.'
"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 56:
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Narrated Zainab bint Salama: Um Habiba said to Allah's
Apostle "We have heard that you want to marry Durra bint Abu-Salama."
Allah's Apostle said, "Can she be married along with Um Salama (her mother)?
Even if I have not married Um Salama, she would not be lawful for me to
marry, for her father is my foster brother." 'And there is no blame on you
if you make hint of betrothal or conceal it in your hearts. Allah is
Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing.' (2.235) Ibn 'Abbas said, "Hint your
intention of marrying' is made by saying (to the widow) for example: "I want
to marry, and I wish that Allah will make a righteous lady available for
me.' " Al-Qasim said: One may say to the widow: 'I hold all respect for you,
and I am interested in you; Allah will bring you much good, or something
similar 'Ata said: One should hint his intention, and should not declare it
openly. One may say: 'I have some need. Have good tidings. Praise be to
Allah; you are fit to remarry.' She (the widow) may say in reply: I am
listening to what you say,' but she should not make a promise. Her guardian
should not make a promise (to somebody to get her married to him) without
her knowledge. But if, while still in the Iddat period, she makes a promise
to marry somebody, and he ultimately marries her, they are not to be
separated by divorce (i.e., the marriage is valid).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 57:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle said (to me), "You were
shown to me in a dream. An angel brought you to me, wrapped in a piece of
silken cloth, and said to me, 'This is your wife.' I removed the piece of
cloth from your face, and there you were. I said to myself. 'If it is from
Allah, then it will surely be.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 58:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: A woman came to Allah's Apostle
and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have come to you to present myself to you
(for marriage)." Allah's Apostle glanced at her. He looked at her carefully
and fixed his glance on her and then lowered his head. When the lady saw
that he did not say anything, she sat down. A man from his companions got up
and said, "O Allah's Apostle! If you are not in need of her, then marry her
to me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything to offer." The man said,
'No, by Allah, O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet said (to him), "Go to your
family and try to find something." So the man went and returned, saying,
"No, by Allah, O Allah's Apostle! I have not found anything." The Prophet
said, "Go again and look for something, even if it were an iron ring." He
went and returned, saying, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Apostle! I could not
find even an iron ring, but this is my Izar (waist sheet).' He had no Rida
(upper garment). He added, "I give half of it to her." Allah's Apostle said
"What will she do with your Izar? If you wear it, she will have nothing over
herself thereof (will be naked); and if she wears it, then you will have
nothing over yourself thereof ' So the man sat for a long period and then
got up (to leave). When Allah's Apostle saw him leaving, he ordered that he
e called back. When he came, the Prophet asked (him), "How much of the
Qur'an do you know (by heart)?" The man replied, I know such Sura and such
Sura and such Sura," naming the suras. The Prophet said, "Can you recite it
by heart?" He said, 'Yes." The Prophet said, "Go I let you marry her for
what you know of the Quran (as her Mahr).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 59:
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Narrated 'Aisha: (as regards the Verse): 'And about what
is recited unto you in the Book, concerning orphan girls to whom you give
not the prescribed portions and yet, whom you desire to marry.' (4.127) This
Verse is about the female orphan who is under the guardianship of a man with
whom she shares her property and he has more right over her (than anybody
else) but does not like to marry her, so he prevents her, from marrying
somebody else, lest he should share the property with him.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 60:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: When Hafsa, 'Umar's
daughter became a widow because of the death of her (husband) Ibn Hudhafa
As-Sahmi who was one of the companion of the Prophet and the one of the Badr
warriors and died at Medina, 'Umar said, "I met 'Uthman bin 'Affan and gave
him an offer, saying, 'If you wish, I will marry Hafsa to you.' He said. 'I
will think it over' I waited for a few days, then he met me and said, 'I
have made up my mind not to marry at present' "Umar added, "Then I met Abu
Bakr and said to him, 'If you wish, I will marry Hafsa to you.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 61:
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Narrated Al-Hasan: concerning the Verse: 'Do not prevent
them' (2.232) Ma'qil bin Yasar told me that it was revealed in his
connection. He said, "I married my sister to a man and he divorced her, and
when her days of 'Idda (three menstrual periods) were over, the man came
again and asked for her hand, but I said to him, 'I married her to you and
made her your bed (your wife) and favored you with her, but you divorced
her. Now you come to ask for her hand again? No, by Allah, she will never go
back to you (again)!' That man was not a bad man and his wife wanted to go
back to him. So Allah revealed this Verse: 'Do not prevent them.' (2.232) So
I said, 'Now I will do it (let her go back to him), O Allah's Apostle."So he
married her to him again.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 62:
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Narrated 'Aisha: (regarding His Statement): 'They ask
your instruction concerning the women. Say: Allah instructs you about them
...' (4.127) It is about the female orphan who is under the guardianship of
a man with whom she shares her property and he does not want to marry her
and dislikes that someone else should marry her, lest he should share the
property with him, so he prevents her from marrying. So Allah forbade such a
guardian to do so (i.e. to prevent her from marrying).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 63:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: While we were sitting in the
company of the Prophet a woman came to him and presented herself (for
marriage) to him. The Prophet looked at her, lowering his eyes and raising
them, but did not give a reply. One of his companions said, "Marry her to me
O Allah's Apostle!" The Prophet asked (him), "Have you got anything?" He
said, "I have got nothing." The Prophet said, "Not even an iron ring?" He
Sad, "Not even an iron ring, but I will tear my garment into two halves and
give her one half and keep the other half." The Prophet; said, "No. Do you
know some of the Quran (by heart)?" He said, "Yes." The Prophet said, "Go, I
have agreed to marry her to you with what you know of the Qur'an (as her
Mahr)." 'And for those who have no courses (i.e. they are still immature).
(65.4) And the 'Iddat for the girl before puberty is three months (in the
above Verse).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she
was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years
old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she
was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years
old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet
for nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by
heart)'
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 66:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: A woman came to Allah's Apostle
and said, "I present myself (to you) (for marriage). She stayed for a long
while, then a man said, "If you are not in need of her then marry her to
me." The Prophet said, "Have you got anything m order to pay her Mahr?" He
said, "I have nothing with me except my Izar (waist sheet)." The Prophet
said, "If you give her your Izar, you will have no Izar to wear, (so go) and
search for something. He said, "I could not find anything." The Prophet
said, "Try (to find something), even if it were an iron ring But he was not
able to find (even that) The Prophet said (to him). "Do you memorize
something of the Qur'an?" "Yes. ' he said, "such Sura and such Sura," naming
those Suras The Prophet said, "We have married her to you for what you know
of the Quran (by heart)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 67:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A matron should
not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should
not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O
Allah's Apostle! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence
(indicates her permission)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 68:
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Narrated 'Aisha: I said, "O Allah's Apostle! A virgin
feels shy." He said, "Her consent is (expressed by) her silence."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 69:
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Narrated Khansa bint Khidam Al-Ansariya: that her father
gave her in marriage when she was a matron and she disliked that marriage.
So she went to Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 70:
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Narrated Abdur-Rahman bin Yazid and Majammi bin Yazid.
the same ,Hadith above: A man called Khidam married a daughter of his (to
somebody) against her consent. 'If you fear that you shall not be able to
deal justly with the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice.'
(4.3) And if somebody says to the guardian (of a woman), "Marry me to
so-and-so," and the guardian remained silent or said to him, "What have you
got?" And the other said, "I have so much and so much (Mahr)," or kept
quiet, and then the guardian said, "I have married her to you," then the
marriage is valid (legal). This narration was told by Sahl on the authority
of the Prophet
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 71:
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Narrated 'Ursa bin Az-Zubair: that he asked 'Aisha,
saying to her, "O Mother! (In what connection was this Verse revealed): 'If
you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with orphan girls (to the
end of the verse) that your right hands possess?" (4.3) Aisha said, "O my
nephew! It was about the female orphan under the protection of her guardian
who was interested in her beauty and wealth and wanted to marry her with a
little or reduced Mahr. So such guardians were forbidden to marry female
orphans unless they deal with them justly and give their full Mahr; and they
were ordered to marry women other than them."'Aisha added, "(Later) the
people asked Allah's Apostle, for instructions, and then Allah revealed:
'They ask your instruction concerning the women . . . And yet whom you
desire to marry.' (4.127) So Allah revealed to them in this Verse that-if a
female orphan had wealth and beauty, they desired to marry her and were
interested in her noble descent and the reduction of her Mahr; but if she
was not desired by them because of her lack in fortune and beauty they left
her and married some other woman. So, as they used to leave her when they
had no interest in her, they had no right to marry her if they had the
desire to do so, unless they deal justly with her and gave her a full amount
of Mahr."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 72:
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Narrated Sahl: A woman came to the Prophet,, and
presented herself to him (for marriage). He said, "I am not in need of women
these days." Then a man said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry her to me." The
Prophet asked him, "What have you got?" He said, "I have got nothing." The
Prophet said, "Give her something, even an iron ring." He said, "I have got
nothing." The Prophet asked (him), "How much of the Quran do you know (by
heart)?" He said, "So much and so much." The Prophet said, "I have married
her to you for what you know of the Quran."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 73:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar: The Prophet decreed that one should
not try to cancel a bargain already agreed upon between some other persons
(by offering a bigger price). And a man should not ask for the hand of a
girl who is already engaged to his Muslim brother, unless the first suitor
gives her up, or allows him to ask for her hand.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 74:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "Beware of
suspicion (about others), as suspicion is the falsest talk, and do not spy
upon each other, and do not listen to the evil talk of the people about
others' affairs, and do not have enmity with one another, but be brothers.
And none should ask for the hand of a girl who is already engaged to his
(Muslim) brother, but one should wait till the first suitor marries her or
leaves her."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 75:
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Narrated Abdullah bin Umar: "When Hafsa became a widow,"
Umar said, "I met Abu Bakr and said to him, 'If you wish I will marry Hafsa
bint 'Umar to you.' I waited for a few days then Allah's Apostle asked for
her hand. Later Abu Bakr met me and said, 'Nothing stopped me from returning
to you concerning your offer except that I knew that Allah's Apostle had
mentioned (his wish to marry) her, and I could never let out the secret of
Allah's Apostle . If he had left her, I would have accepted her.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 76:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar: Two men came from the east and
delivered speeches, and the Prophet said, "Some eloquent speech has the in
fluency of magic (e.g., some people refuse to do something and then a good
eloquent speaker addresses them and then they agree to do that very thing
after his speech). "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 77:
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Narrated Ar-Rabi': (the daughter of Muawwidh bin Afra)
After the consummation of my marriage, the Prophet came and sat on my bed as
far from me as you are sitting now, and our little girls started beating the
tambourines and reciting elegiac verses mourning my father who had been
killed in the battle of Badr. One of them said, "Among us is a Prophet who
knows what will happen tomorrow." On that the Prophet said, "Leave this
(saying) and keep on saying the verses which you had been saying before."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 78:
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Narrated Anas: Abdur Rahman bin 'Auf married a woman and
gave her gold equal to the weight of a date stone (as Mahr). When the
Prophet noticed the signs of cheerfulness of the marriage (on his face) and
asked him about it, he said, "I have married a woman and gave (her) gold
equal to a date stone in weight (as Mahr)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 79:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad As-Sa'idi: While I was (sitting)
among the people in the company of Allah's Apostle a woman stood up and
said, "O Allah's Apostle! She has given herself in marriage to you; please
give your opinion of her." The Prophet did not give her any reply. She again
stood up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! She has given herself (in marriage)
to you; so please give your opinion of her. The Prophet did not give her any
reply. She again stood up for the third time and said, "She has given
herself in marriage to you: so give your opinion of her." So a man stood up
and said, "O Allah's Apostle! Marry her to me." The Prophet asked him, "Have
you got anything?" He said, "No." The Prophet said, "Go and search for
something, even if it were an iron ring." The man went and searched and then
returned saying, "I could not find anything, not even an iron ring." Then
the Prophet said, "Do you know something of the Quran (by heart)?" He
replied, "I know (by heart) such Sura and such Sura." The Prophet said, "Go!
I have married her to you for what you know of the Quran (by heart)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 80:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: The Prophet said to a man, "Marry,
even with (a Mahr equal to) an iron ring."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 81:
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Narrated 'Uqba: The Prophet said: "The stipulations most
entitled to be abided by are those with which you are given the right to
enjoy the (women's) private parts (i.e. the stipulations of the marriage
contract)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 82:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "It is not lawful
for a woman (at the time of wedding) to ask for the divorce of her sister
(i.e. the other wife of her would-be husband) in order to have everything
for herself, for she will take only what has been written for her."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 83:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf came to
Allah's Apostle and he had marks of Sufra (yellow perfume). Allah's Apostle
asked him (about those marks). 'AbdurRahman bin Auf told him that he had
married a woman from the Ansar. The Prophet asked, "How much Mahr did you
pay her?" He said, "I paid gold equal to the weight of a date stone."
Allah's Apostle said to him, "Give a wedding banquet, even if with one
sheep."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 84:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet offered a wedding banquet on
the occasion of his marriage to Zainab, and provided a good meal for the
Muslims. Then he went out as was his custom on marrying, he came to the
dwelling places of the mothers of the Believers (i.e. his wives) invoking
good (on them), and they were invoking good (on him). Then he departed (and
came back) and saw two men (still sitting there). So he left again. I do not
remember whether I informed him or he was informed (by somebody else) of
their departure)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 85:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet saw the traces of Sufra
(yellow perfume) on Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf and said, "What is this?"
'Abdur-Rahman, said, "I have married a woman and have paid gold equal to the
weight of a datestone (as her Mahr). The Prophet said to him, "May Allah
bless you: Offer a wedding banquet even with one sheep."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 86:
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Narrated 'Aisha: When the Prophet married me, my mother
came to me and made me enter the house where I saw some women from the Ansar
who said, "May you prosper and have blessings and have good omen."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 87:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A prophet among
the prophets went for a military expedition and said to his people: "A man
who has married a lady and wants to consummate his marriage with her and he
has not done so yet, should not accompany me.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88:
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Narrated 'Ursa: The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract)
with 'Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with
her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years
(i.e. till his death).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 89:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet stayed for three days at a
place between Khaibar and Medina, and there he consummated his marriage with
Safiyya bint Huyay. I invited the Muslims to a banquet which included
neither meat nor bread. The Prophet ordered for the leather dining sheets to
be spread, and then dates, dried yogurt and butter were provided over it,
and that was the Walima (banquet) of the Prophet. The Muslims asked whether
Safiyya would be considered as his wife or as a slave girl of what his right
hands possessed. Then they said, "If the Prophet screens her from the
people, then she Is the Prophet's wife but if he does not screen her, then
she is a slave girl." So when the Prophet proceeded, he made a place for her
(on the camel) behind him and screened her from people.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 90:
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Narrated Aisha: When the Prophet married me, my mother
came to me and made me enter the house (of the Prophet) and nothing
surprised me but the coming of Allah's Apostle to me in the forenoon.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 91:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: Allah's Apostle said, "Did
you get Anmat?" I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! From where can we have Anmat?"
The Prophet said, "Soon you will have them Anmat)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 92p:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that she prepared a lady for a man from
the Ansar as his bride and the Prophet said, "O 'Aisha! Haven't you got any
amusement (during the marriage ceremony) as the Ansar like amusement?"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 92m:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: "Whenever the Prophet passed by
(my mother Um-Sulaim) he used to enter her and greet her. Anas further said:
Once the Prophet way a bridegroom during his marriage with Zainab, Um Sulaim
said to me, "Let us give a gift to Allah's Apostle ." I said to her, "Do
it." So she prepared Haisa (a sweet dish) made from dates, butter and dried
yoghurt and she sent it with me to him. I took it to him and he said, "Put
it down," and ordered me to call some men whom he named, and to invite
whomever I would meet. I did what he ordered me to do, and when I returned,
I found the house crowded with people and saw the Prophet keeping his hand
over the Haisa and saying over it whatever Allah wished (him to say). Then
he called the men in batches of ten to eat of it, and he said to them,
"Mention the Name of Allah, and each man should eat of the dish the nearest
to him." When all of them had finished their meals, some of them left and a
few remained there talking, over which I felt unhappy. Then the Prophet went
out towards the dwelling places (of his wives) and I too, went out after him
and told him that those people had left. Then he returned and entered his
dwelling place and let the curtains fall while I was in (his) dwelling
place, and he was reciting the Verses:-- 'O you who believe! Enter not the
Prophet's house until leave is given you for a meal, (and then) not (as
early as) to what for its preparation. But when you are invited, enter, and
when you have taken your meals, disperse without sitting for a talk. Verily
such (behavior) annoys the Prophet; and he would be shy of (asking) you (to
go), but Allah is not shy of (telling you) the Truth.' (33-53) Abu Uthman
said: Anas said, "I served the Prophet for ten years."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 93:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that she borrowed a necklace from Asma'
and then it got lost. So Allah's Apostle sent some people from his
companions in search of it. In the meantime the stated time for the prayer
became due and they offered their prayer without ablution. When they came to
the Prophet, they complained about it to him, so the Verse regarding
Tayammum was revealed . Usaid bin Hudair said, "(O 'Aisha!) may Allah bless
you with a good reward, for by Allah, never did a difficulty happen in
connection with you, but Allah made an escape from it for you, and brought
Allah's Blessings for the Muslims."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 94:
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Narrated Ibn Abbas: The Prophet said, "If anyone of you,
when having sexual intercourse with his wife, says: Bismillah, Allahumma
jannibni-Sh-Shaitan wa jannib-ish-Shaitan ma razaqtana, and if it is
destined that they should have a child, then Satan will never be able to
harm him."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 95:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: I was ten years old when Allah's
Apostle arrived at Medina. My mother and aunts used to urge me to serve the
Prophet regularly, and I served him for ten years. When the Prophet died I
was twenty years old, and I knew about the order of Al-Hijab (veiling of
ladies) more than any other person when it was revealed. It was revealed for
the first time when Allah's Apostle had consummated his marriage with Zainab
bint Jahsh. When the day dawned, the Prophet was a bridegroom and he invited
the people to a banquet, so they came, ate, and then all left except a few
who remained with the Prophet for a long time. The Prophet got up and went
out, and I too went out with him so that those people might leave too. The
Prophet proceeded and so did I, till he came to the threshold of 'Aisha's
dwelling place. Then thinking that these people have left by then, he
returned and so did I along with him till he entered upon Zainab and behold,
they were still sitting and had not gone. So the Prophet again went away and
I went away along with him. When we reached the threshold of 'Aisha's
dwelling place, he thought that they had left, and so he returned and I too,
returned along with him and found those people had left. Then the Prophet
drew a curtain between me and him, and the Verses of Al-Hijab were revealed.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 96:
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Narrated Anas: When 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf married an
Ansari woman, the Prophet asked him, "How much Mahr did you give her?"
'Abdur-Rahman said, "Gold equal to the weight of a date stone." Anas added:
When they (i.e. the Prophet and his companions) arrived at Medina, the
emigrants stayed at the Ansar's houses. 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Auf stayed at Sad
bin Ar-Rabi's house. Sad said to 'Abdur-Rahman, "I will divide and share my
property with you and will give one of my two wives to you." 'Abdur-Rahman
said, "May Allah bless you, your wives and property (I am not in need of
that; but kindly show me the way to the market)." So 'Abdur-Rahman went to
the market and traded there gaining a profit of some dried yoghurt and
butter, and married (an Ansari woman). The Prophet said to him, "Give a
banquet, even if with one sheep."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 97:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet did not give a better wedding
banquet on the occasion of marrying any of his wives than the one he gave on
marrying Zainab, and that banquet was with (consisted of) one sheep.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 98:
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Narrated Anas: Allah's Apostle manumitted Safiyya and
then married her, and her Mahr was her manumission, and he gave a wedding
banquet with Hais (a sort of sweet dish made from butter, cheese and dates).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 99:
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Narrated Anas: The Prophet consummated his marriage with
a woman (Zainab), so he sent me to invite men to the meals.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 100:
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Narrated Thabit: The marriage of Zainab bint Jahash was
mentioned in the presence of Anas and he said, "I did not see the Prophet
giving a better banquet on marrying any of his wives than the one he gave on
marrying Zainab. He then gave a banquet with one sheep."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 101:
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Narrated Safiyya bint Shaiba: The Prophet gave a banquet
with two Mudds of barley on marrying some of his wives. (1 Mudd= 1 3/4 of a
kilogram) .
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 102:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: Allah's Apostle said, "If
anyone of you is invites to a wedding banquet, he must go for it (accept the
invitation) ."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 103:
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Narrated Abu Musa: The Prophet said, "Set the captives
free, accept the invitation (to a wedding banquet), and visit the patients."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 104:
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Narrated Al-Bara' bin 'Azib: The Prophet ordered us to do
seven (things) and forbade us from seven. He ordered us to visit the
patients, to follow the funeral procession, to reply to the sneezer (i.e.,
say to him, 'Yarhamuka-l-lah (May Allah bestow His Mercy upon you), if he
says 'Al-hamdulillah' (Praise be to Allah), to help others to fulfill their
oaths, to help the oppressed, to greet (whomever one should meet), and to
accept the invitation (to a wedding banquet). He forbade us to wear golden
rings, to use silver utensils, to use Mayathir (cushions of silk stuffed
with cotton and placed under the rider on the saddle), the Qasiyya (linen
clothes containing silk brought from an Egyptian town), the Istibraq (thick
silk) and the Dibaj (another kind of silk). (See Hadith No. 539 and 753).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 105:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: Abu Usaid As-Sa'di invited Allah's
Apostle to his wedding party and his wife who was the bride, served them on
that day. Do you know what drink she gave Allah's Apostle? She had soaked
some dates for him (in water) overnight, and when he had finished his meal
she gave him that drink (of soaked dates).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 106:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The worst food is that of a wedding
banquet to which only the rich are invited while the poor are not invited.
And he who refuses an invitation (to a banquet) disobeys Allah and His
Apostle .
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 107:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "If I am invited
to a meal of trotters I will accept it; and if I am given a trotter as a
present I will accept it."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 108:
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Narrated Nafi': Abdullah bin 'Umar said, "Allah's Apostle
said, 'Accept the marriage invitation if you are invited to it.' " Ibn 'Umar
used to accept the invitation whether to a wedding banquet or to any other
party, even when he was fasting.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 109:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: Once the Prophet saw some women
and children coming from a wedding party. He got up energetically and
happily and said, "By Allah! You (i.e., the Ansar) are the most beloved of
all people to me."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 110:
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Narrated Aisha: (the wife of the Prophet) I bought a
cushion having on it pictures (of animals). When Allah's Apostle saw it, he
stood at the door and did not enter. I noticed the sign of disapproval on
his face and said, "O Allah's Apostle! I repent to Allah and His Apostle.
What sin have I committed?' Allah's Apostle said. "What is this cushion?" I
said, "I have bought it for you so that you may sit on it and recline on
it." Allah's Apostle said, "The makers of these pictures will be punished on
the Day of Resurrection, and it will be said to them, 'Give life to what you
have created (i.e., these pictures).' " The Prophet added, "The Angels of
(Mercy) do not enter a house in which there are pictures (of animals)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 111:
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Narrated Sahl: When Abu Usaid As-Sa'idi got married, he
invited the Prophet and his companions. None prepared the food for them and
brought it to them but his wife. She soaked some dates in water in a stone
pot overnight, and when the Prophet had finished his food, she provided him
with that drink (of soaked dates).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 112:
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Narrated Sahl bin Sad: Abu Usaid As-Sa'idi invited the
Prophet to his wedding party and his wife served him on that day, and she
was the bride. She said (or Sahl said), "Do you know what she soaked for
Allah's Apostle? She soaked some dates for him (in water) in a drinking bowl
overnight."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 113:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "The woman is
like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to
get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 114:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "Whoever believes
in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbor. And I
advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and
the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part; if you try to
straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked,
so I urge you to take care of the women."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 115:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar: During the lifetime of the Prophet we
used to avoid chatting leisurely and freely with our wives lest some Divine
inspiration might be revealed concerning us. But when the Prophet had died,
we started chatting leisurely and freely (with them).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 116:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Umar: The Prophet said, "Everyone
of you is a guardian and everyone of you is responsible (for his wards). A
ruler is a guardian and is responsible(for his subjects); a man is a
guardian of his family and responsible (for them); a wife is a guardian of
her husband's house and she is responsible (for it), a slave is a guardian
of his master's property and is responsible (for that). Beware! All of you
are guardians and are responsible (for your wards)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 117:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Eleven women sat (at a place) and
promised and contracted that they would not conceal anything of the news of
their husbands. The first one said, "My husband is like the meat of a lean
weak camel which is kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to
climb, nor is the meat fat, so that one might put up with the trouble of
fetching it." The second one said, "I shall not relate my husband's news,
for I fear that I may not be able to finish his story, for if I describe
him, I will mention all his defects and bad traits." The third one said, "My
husband is a tall man; if I describe him (and he hears of that) he will
divorce me, and if I keep quiet, he will neither divorce me nor treat me as
a wife." The fourth one said, "My husband is a moderate person like the
night of Tihama which is neither hot nor cold. I am neither afraid of him,
nor am I discontented with him." The fifth one said, "My husband, when
entering (the house) is a leopard, and when going out, is a lion. He does
not ask about whatever is in the house." The sixth one said, "If my husband
eats. he eats too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he
leaves nothing, and if he sleeps he sleeps alone (away from me) covered in
garments and does not stretch his hands here and there so as to know how I
fare (get along)." The seventh one said, "My husband is a wrong-doer or weak
and foolish. All the defects are present in him. He may injure your head or
your body or may do both." The eighth one said, "My husband is soft to touch
like a rabbit and smells like a Zarnab (a kind of good smelling grass)." The
ninth one said, "My husband is a tall generous man wearing a long strap for
carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant and his house is near to the
people who would easily consult him." The tenth one said, "My husband is
Malik, and what is Malik? Malik is greater than whatever I say about him.
(He is beyond and above all praises which can come to my mind). Most of his
camels are kept at home (ready to be slaughtered for the guests) and only a
few are taken to the pastures. When the camels hear the sound of the lute
(or the tambourine) they realize that they are going to be slaughtered for
the guests." The eleventh one said, "My husband is Abu Zar and what is Abu
Zar (i.e., what should I say about him)? He has given me many ornaments and
my ears are heavily loaded with them and my arms have become fat (i.e., I
have become fat). And he has pleased me, and I have become so happy that I
feel proud of myself. He found me with my family who were mere owners of
sheep and living in poverty, and brought me to a respected family having
horses and camels and threshing and purifying grain . Whatever I say, he
does not rebuke or insult me. When I sleep, I sleep till late in the
morning, and when I drink water (or milk), I drink my fill. The mother of
Abu Zar and what may one say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar? Her saddle
bags were always full of provision and her house was spacious. As for the
son of Abu Zar, what may one say of the son of Abu Zar? His bed is as narrow
as an unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four months) satisfies his
hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar, she is obedient to her father and to
her mother. She has a fat well-built body and that arouses the jealousy of
her husband's other wife. As for the (maid) slave girl of Abu Zar, what may
one say of the (maid) slavegirl of Abu Zar? She does not uncover our secrets
but keeps them, and does not waste our provisions and does not leave the
rubbish scattered everywhere in our house." The eleventh lady added, "One
day it so happened that Abu Zar went out at the time when the milk was being
milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had two sons like two
leopards playing with her two breasts. (On seeing her) he divorced me and
married her. Thereafter I married a noble man who used to ride a fast
tireless horse and keep a spear in his hand. He gave me many things, and
also a pair of every kind of livestock and said, 'Eat (of this), O Um Zar,
and give provision to your relatives." She added, "Yet, all those things
which my second husband gave me could not fill the smallest utensil of Abu
Zar's." 'Aisha then said: Allah's Apostle said to me, "I am to you as Abu
Zar was to his wife Um Zar."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 118:
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Narrated 'Ursa: Aisha said, "While the Ethiopians were
playing with their small spears, Allah's Apostle screened me behind him and
I watched (that display) and kept on watching till I left on my own." So you
may estimate of what age a little girl may listen to amusement.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 119:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas : I had been eager to ask 'Umar bin
Al-Khattab about the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet
regarding whom Allah said 'If you two (wives of the Prophet namely Aisha and
Hafsa) turn in repentance to Allah, your hearts are indeed so inclined (to
oppose what the Prophet likes). (66.4) till 'Umar performed the Hajj and I
too, performed the Hajj along with him. (On the way) 'Umar went aside to
answer the call of nature, and I also went aside along with him carrying a
tumbler full of water, and when 'Umar had finished answering the call of
nature, I poured water over his hands and he performed the ablution. Then I
said to him, "O chief of the Believers! Who were the two ladies from among
the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said: 'If you two (wives of
the Prophet) turn in repentance to Allah your hearts are indeed so inclined
(to oppose what the Prophet likes)?" (66.4) He said, "I am astonished at
your question, O Ibn Abbas. They were 'Aisha and Hafsa." Then 'Umar went on
narrating the Hadith and said, "I and an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani
Umaiyya bin Zaid who used to live in Awali-al-Medina, used to visit the
Prophet in turn. He used to go one day and I another day. When I went, I
would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the Divine
Inspiration and other things, and when he went, he used to do the same for
me. We, the people of Quraish used to have the upper hand over our wives,
but when we came to the Ansar, we found that their women had the upper hand
over their men, so our women also started learning the ways of the Ansari
women. I shouted at my wife and she retorted against me and I disliked that
she should answer me back. She said to me, 'Why are you so surprised at my
answering you back? By Allah, the wives of the Prophet answer him back and
some of them may leave (does not speak to) him throughout the day till the
night.' The (talk) scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever has done so will be
ruined!' Then I proceeded after dressing myself, and entered upon Hafsa and
said to her, 'Does anyone of you keep the Prophet angry till night?' She
said, 'Yes.' I said, 'You are a ruined losing person! Don't you fear that
Allah may get angry for the anger of Allah's Apostle and thus you will be
ruined? So do not ask more from the Prophet and do not answer him back and
do not give up talking to him. Ask me whatever you need and do not be
tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e., 'Aisha) in her manners for she is
more charming than you and more beloved to the Prophet ." Umar added,"At
that time a talk was circulating among us that (the tribe of) Ghassan were
preparing their horses to invade us. My Ansari companion, on the day of his
turn, went (to the town) and returned to us at night and knocked at my door
violently and asked if I was there. I became horrified and came out to him.
He said, 'Today a great thing has happened.' I asked, 'What is it? Have (the
people of) Ghassan come?' He said, 'No, but (What has happened) is greater
and more horrifying than that: Allah's Apostle; has divorced his wives.
'Umar added, "The Prophet kept away from his wives and I said "Hafsa is a
ruined loser.' I had already thought that most probably this (divorce) would
happen in the near future. So I dressed myself and offered the morning
prayer with the Prophet and then the Prophet; entered an upper room and
stayed there in seclusion. I entered upon Hafsa and saw her weeping. I
asked, 'What makes you weep? Did I not warn you about that? Did the Prophet
divorce you all?' She said, 'I do not know. There he is retired alone in the
upper room.' I came out and sat near the pulpit and saw a group of people
sitting around it and some of them were weeping. I sat with them for a while
but could not endure the situation, so I went to the upper room where the
Prophet; was and said to a black slave of his, 'Will you get the permission
(of the Prophet ) for 'Umar (to enter)?' The slave went in, talked to the
Prophet about it and then returned saying, 'I have spoken to the Prophet and
mentioned you but he kept quiet.' Then I returned and sat with the group of
people sitting near the pulpit. but I could not bear the situation and once
again I said to the slave, 'Will you get the permission for 'Umar?' He went
in and returned saying, 'I mentioned you to him but he kept quiet.' So I
returned again and sat with the group of people sitting near the pulpit, but
I could not bear the situation, and so I went to the slave and said, 'Will
you get the permission for 'Umar?' He went in and returned to me saying, 'I
mentioned you to him but he kept quiet.' When I was leaving, behold! The
slave called me, saying, 'The Prophet has given you permission.' Then I
entered upon Allah's Apostle and saw him Lying on a bed made of stalks of
date palm leaves and there was no bedding between it and him. The stalks
left marks on his side and he was leaning on a leather pillow stuffed with
date-palm fires. I greeted him and while still standing I said, 'O Allah's
Apostle! Have you divorced your wives?' He looked at me and said, 'No.' I
said, 'Allah Akbar!' And then, while still standing, I said chatting, 'Will
you heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? We, the people of Quraish used to
have power over our women, but when we arrived at Medina we found that the
men (here) were overpowered by their women.' The Prophet smiled and then I
said to him, 'Will you heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? I entered upon
Hafsa and said to her, "Do not be tempted to imitate your companion
('Aisha), for she is more charming than you and more beloved to the
Prophet.' " The Prophet smiled for a second time. When I saw him smiling, I
sat down. Then I looked around his house, and by Allah, I could not see
anything of importance in his house except three hides, so I said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah to make your followers rich, for the Persians
and the Romans have been made prosperous and they have been given (the
pleasures of the world), although they do not worship Allah.' Thereupon the
Prophet sat up as he was reclining. and said, 'Are you of such an opinion, O
the son of Al-Khattab? These are the people who have received the rewards
for their good deeds in this world.' I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Ask Allah
to forgive me.' Then the Prophet kept away from his wives for twenty-nine
days because of the story which Hafsa had disclosed to 'Aisha. The Prophet
had said, 'I will not enter upon them (my wives) for one month,' because of
his anger towards them, when Allah had admonished him. So, when twenty nine
days had passed, the Prophet first entered upon 'Aisha. 'Aisha said to him,
'O Allah's Apostle! You had sworn that you would not enter upon us for one
month, but now only twenty-nine days have passed, for I have been counting
them one by one.' The Prophet said, 'The (present) month is of twenty nine
days.' 'Aisha added, 'Then Allah revealed the Verses of the option. (2) And
out of all his-wives he asked me first, and I chose him.' Then he gave
option to his other wives and they said what 'Aisha had said . " (1) The
Prophet, ' had decided to abstain from eating a certain kind of food because
of a certain event, so Allah blamed him for doing so. Some of his wives were
the cause of him taking that decision, therefore he deserted them for one
month. See Quran: (66.4)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 120:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A woman should
not fast (optional fasts) except with her husband's permission if he is at
home (staying with her)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 121:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "If a man Invites
his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels
send their curses on her till morning."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 122:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "If a woman
spends the night deserting her husband's bed (does not sleep with him), then
the angels send their curses on her till she comes back (to her husband)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 123:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "It is not
lawful for a lady to fast (Nawafil) without the permission of her husband
when he is at home; and she should not allow anyone to enter his house
except with his permission; and if she spends of his wealth (on charitable
purposes) without being ordered by him, he will get half of the reward."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 124:
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Narrated Usama: The Prophet said, "I stood at the gate of
Paradise and saw that the majority of the people who entered it were the
poor, while the wealthy were stopped at the gate (for the accounts). But the
companions of the Fire were ordered to be taken to the Fire. Then I stood at
the gate of the Fire and saw that the majority of those who entered it were
women."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 125:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin Abbas: During the lifetime of
Allah's Apostle, the sun eclipsed. Allah's Apostle offered the prayer of
(the) eclipse) and so did the people along with him. He performed a long
Qiyam (standing posture) during which Surat-al-Baqara could have been
recited; then he performed a pro-longed bowing, then raised his head and
stood for a long time which was slightly less than that of the first Qiyam
(and recited Qur'an). Then he performed a prolonged bowing again but the
period was shorter than the period of the first bowing, then he stood up and
then prostrated. Again he stood up, but this time the period of standing was
less than the first standing. Then he performed a prolonged bowing but of a
lesser duration than the first, then he stood up again for a long time but
for a lesser duration than the first. Then he performed a prolonged bowing
but of lesser duration than the first, and then he again stood up, and then
prostrated and then finished his prayer. By then the sun eclipse had
cleared. The Prophet then said, "The sun and the moon are two signs among
the signs of Allah, and they do not eclipse because of the death or birth of
someone, so when you observe the eclipse, remember Allah (offer the eclipse
prayer)." They (the people) said, "O Allah's Apostle! We saw you stretching
your hand to take something at this place of yours, then we saw you stepping
backward." He said, "I saw Paradise (or Paradise was shown to me), and I
stretched my hand to pluck a bunch (of grapes), and had I plucked it, you
would have eaten of it as long as this world exists. Then I saw the (Hell)
Fire, and I have never before, seen such a horrible sight as that, and I saw
that the majority of its dwellers were women." The people asked, "O Allah's
Apostle! What is the reason for that?" He replied, "Because of their
ungratefulness." It was said. "Do they disbelieve in Allah (are they
ungrateful to Allah)?" He replied, "They are not thankful to their husbands
and are ungrateful for the favors done to them. Even if you do good to one
of them all your life, when she seems some harshness from you, she will say,
"I have never seen any good from you.' "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 126:
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Narrated Imran: The Prophet said, "I looked at Paradise
and saw that the majority of its residents were the poor; and I looked at
the (Hell) Fire and saw that the majority of its residents were women."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 127:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'As: Allah's Apostle
said, "O 'Abdullah! Have I not been formed that you fast all the day and
stand in prayer all night?" I said, "Yes, O Allah's Apostle!" He said, "Do
not do that! Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them (the fast) at
other times; stand up for the prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your
body has a right over you, your eyes have a right over you and your wife has
a right over you."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 128:
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Narrated Ibn 'Umar: The Prophet said, "All of you are
guardians and are responsible for your wards. The ruler is a guardian and
the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian and is
responsible for her husband's house and his offspring; and so all of you are
guardians and are responsible for your wards."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 129:
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Narrated Anas: Allah's Apostle took an oath that he would
not visit his wives for one month, and he sat in an upper room belonging to
him. Then, on the twenty ninth day he came down. It was said, "O Allah's
Apostle! You had taken an oath not to visit your wives for one month." He
said, "The (present) month is of twenty-nine days."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 130:
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Narrated Um Salama: The Prophet took an oath that he
would not enter upon some of his wives for one month. But when twenty nine
days had elapsed, he went to them in the morning or evening. It was said to
him, "O Allah's Prophet! You had taken an oath that you would not enter upon
them for one month." He replied, "The month can be of twenty nine days."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 131:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: One morning we saw the wives of the
Prophet weeping, and everyone of them had her family with her, I went to the
mosque and found that it was crowded with people. Then 'Umar bin Al-Khattab
came and went up to the Prophet who was in his upper room. He greeted him
but nobody answered. He greeted again, but nobody answered. Then the
gatekeeper called him and he entered upon the Prophet, and asked, "Have you
divorced your wives?" The Prophet, said, "No, but I have taken an oath not
to go to them for one month." So the Prophet stayed away (from his wives)
for twenty nine days and then entered upon them.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 132:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin Zam'a: The Prophet said, "None of
you should flog his wife as he flogs a slave and then have sexual
intercourse with her in the last part of the day."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 133:
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Narrated 'Aisha: An Ansari woman gave her daughter in
marriage and the hair of the latter started falling out. The Ansari women
came to the Prophet and mentioned that to him and said, "Her (my daughter's)
husband suggested that I should let her wear false hair." The Prophet said,
"No, (don't do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who
lengthen their hair artificially."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 134:
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Narrated Aisha: regarding the Verse: 'If a wife fears
cruelty or desertion on her husband's part ...') (4.128) It concerns the
woman whose husband does not want to keep her with him any longer, but wants
to divorce her and marry some other lady, so she says to him: 'Keep me and
do not divorce me, and then marry another woman, and you may neither spend
on me, nor sleep with me.' This is indicated by the Statement of Allah:
'There is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between
them both, and (such) settlement is better." (4.128)
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 135:
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Narrated Jabir: We used to practice coitus interrupt us
during the lifetime of Allah's Apostle .
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 136:
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Narrated Jabir: We used to practice coitus interrupt us
while the Quran was being revealed. Jabir added: We used to practice coitus
interrupt us during the lifetime of Allah's Apostle while the Quran was
being Revealed.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 137:
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Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri: We got female captives in
the war booty and we used to do coitus interruptus with them. So we asked
Allah's Apostle about it and he said, "Do you really do that?" repeating the
question thrice, "There is no soul that is destined to exist but will come
into existence, till the Day of Resurrection."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 138:
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Narrated al-Qasim: Aisha said that whenever the Prophet
intended to go on a journey, he drew lots among his wives (so as to take one
of them along with him). During one of his journeys the lot fell on 'Aisha
and Hafsa. When night fell the Prophet would ride beside 'Aisha and talk
with her. One night Hafsa said to 'Aisha, "Won't you ride my camel tonight
and I ride yours, so that you may see (me) and I see (you) (in new
situation)?" 'Aisha said, "Yes, (I agree.)" So 'Aisha rode, and then the
Prophet came towards 'Aisha's camel on which Hafsa was riding. He greeted
Hafsa and then proceeded (beside her) till they dismounted (on the way).
'Aisha missed him, and so, when they dismounted, she put her legs in the
Idhkhir and said, "O Lord (Allah)! Send a scorpion or a snake to bite me for
I am not to blame him (the Prophet ).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 139:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Sada bint Zam'a gave up her turn to me
('Aisha), and so the Prophet used to give me ('Aisha) both my day and the
day of Sad;
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 140:
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Narrated Anas: The tradition, (of the Prophet) is that if
someone marries a virgin and he has already a matron wife (with him), then
he should stay with the virgin for seven days; and if someone marries a
matron (and he has already a virgin wife with him) then he should stay with
her for three days.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 141:
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Narrated Anas: It is the Prophet's tradition that if
someone marries a virgin and he has already a matron wife then he should
stay for seven days with her (the virgin) and then by turns; and if someone
marries a matron and he has already a virgin wife then he should stay with
her (the matron) for three days, and then by turns.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 142:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: The Prophet used to pass by
(have sexual relation with) all his wives in one night, and at that time he
had nine wives.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 143:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Whenever Allah's Apostle finished his
'Asr prayer, he would enter upon his wives and stay with one of them. One
day he went to Hafsa and stayed with her longer than usual.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 144:
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Narrated 'Aisha: that during his fatal ailment, Allah's
Apostle, used to ask his wives, "Where shall I stay tomorrow? Where shall I
stay tomorrow?" He was looking forward to Aisha's turn. So all his wives
allowed him to stay where he wished, and he stayed at 'Aisha's house till he
died there. 'Aisha added: He died on the day of my usual turn at my house.
Allah took him unto Him while his head was between my chest and my neck and
his saliva was mixed with my saliva.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 145:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: that 'Umar entered upon Hafsa and
said, "O my daughter! Do not be misled by the manners of her who is proud of
her beauty because of the love of Allah's Apostle for her." By 'her' he
meant 'Aisha. 'Umar added, "Then I told that to Allah's Apostle and he
smiled (on hearing that)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 146:
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Narrated Asma: Some lady said, "O Allah's Apostle! My
husband has another wife, so it is sinful of me to claim that he has given
me what he has not given me (in order to tease her)?" Allah's Apostle said,
The one who pretends that he has been given what he has not been given, is
just like the (false) one who wears two garments of falsehood."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 147:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin Masud: The Prophet, said, "There
is none having a greater sense of Ghira than Allah. And for that He has
forbidden the doing of evil actions (illegal sexual intercourse etc.) There
is none who likes to be praised more than Allah does."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 148:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle said, "O followers of
Muhammad! There is none, who has a greater sense of Ghira (self-respect)
than Allah, so He has forbidden that His slave commits illegal sexual
intercourse or His slave girl commits illegal sexual intercourse. O
followers of Muhammad! If you but knew what I know, you would laugh less and
weep more!"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 149:
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Narrated Asma': I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "There is
nothing (none) having a greater sense of Ghira (self-respect) than Allah."
And narrated Abu Huraira that he heard the Prophet (saying the same).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 150:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet; said, "Allah has a
sense of Ghira, and Allah's sense of Ghira is provoked when a believer does
something which Allah has prohibited."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 151:
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Narrated Asma' bint Abu Bakr: When Az-Zubair married me,
he had no real property or any slave or anything else except a camel which
drew water from the well, and his horse. I used to feed his horse with
fodder and drew water and sew the bucket for drawing it, and prepare the
dough, but I did not know how to bake bread. So our Ansari neighbors used to
bake bread for me, and they were honorable ladies. I used to carry the date
stones on my head from Zubair's land given to him by Allah's Apostle and
this land was two third Farsakh (about two miles) from my house. One day,
while I was coming with the date stones on my head, I met Allah's Apostle
along with some Ansari people. He called me and then, (directing his camel
to kneel down) said, "Ikh! Ikh!" so as to make me ride behind him (on his
camel). I felt shy to travel with the men and remembered Az-Zubair and his
sense of Ghira, as he was one of those people who had the greatest sense of
Ghira. Allah's Apostle noticed that I felt shy, so he proceeded. I came to
Az-Zubair and said, "I met Allah's Apostle while I was carrying a load of
date stones on my head, and he had some companions with him. He made his
camel kneel down so that I might ride, but I felt shy in his presence and
remembered your sense of Ghira (See the glossary). On that Az-Zubair said,
"By Allah, your carrying the date stones (and you being seen by the Prophet
in such a state) is more shameful to me than your riding with him." (I
continued serving in this way) till Abu Bakr sent me a servant to look after
the horse, whereupon I felt as if he had set me free.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 152:
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Narrated Anas: While the Prophet was in the house of one
of his wives, one of the mothers of the believers sent a meal in a dish. The
wife at whose house the Prophet was, struck the hand of the servant, causing
the dish to fall and break. The Prophet gathered the broken pieces of the
dish and then started collecting on them the food which had been in the dish
and said, "Your mother (my wife) felt jealous." Then he detained the servant
till a (sound) dish was brought from the wife at whose house he was. He gave
the sound dish to the wife whose dish had been broken and kept the broken
one at the house where it had been broken.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 153:
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Narrated Jabir: The Prophet, said, "I entered Paradise
and saw a palace and asked whose palace is this? They (the Angels) said,
"This palace belongs to 'Umar bin Al-Khattab.' I intended to enter it, and
nothing stopped me except my knowledge about your sense of Ghira
(self-respect (O Umar)." 'Umar said, "O Allah's Apostle! Let my father and
mother be sacrificed for you! O Allah's Prophet! How dare I think of my
Ghira (self-respect) being offended by you?"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 154:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: While we were sitting with Allah's
Apostle, (he) Allah's Apostle said, "While I was sleeping, I saw a woman
performing ablution beside a palace. I asked, "Whose palace is this?' It was
said, 'This palace belongs to 'Umar.' Then I remembered his sense of Ghira
and returned." On that 'Umar started weeping in that gathering and said, "O
Allah's Apostle! How dare I think of my self-respect being offended by you?"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 155:
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Narrated Aisha: That Allah's Apostle said to her, "I you
are pleased with me or angry with me." I said, "Whence do you know that?" He
said, "When you are pleased with me, you say, 'No, by the Lord of Muhammad,'
but when you are angry with me, then you say, 'No, by the Lord of Abraham.'
" Thereupon I said, "Yes (you are right), but by Allah, O Allah's Apostle, I
leave nothing but your name."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 156:
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Narrated 'Aisha: I never felt so jealous of any wife of
Allah's Apostle as I did of Khadija because Allah's Apostle used to remember
and praise her too often and because it was revealed to Allah's Apostle that
he should give her (Khadija) the glad tidings of her having a palace of
Qasab in Paradise .
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 157:
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Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama: I heard Allah's Apostle
who was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me
to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give
permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces
my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my
body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 158:
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Narrated Anas: I will narrate to you a Habith I heard
from Allah's Apostle and none other than I will tell you of it. I heard
Allah's Apostle saying, "From among the portents of the Hour are the
following: Religious knowledge will be taken away; General ignorance (in
religious matters) will increase; illegal Sexual intercourse will prevail:
Drinking of alcoholic drinks will prevail. Men will decrease in number, and
women will increase in number, so much so that fifty women will be looked
after by one man."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 159:
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Narrated 'Uqba bin 'Amir: Allah's Apostle said, "Beware
of entering upon the ladies." A man from the Ansar said, "Allah's Apostle!
What about Al-Hamu the in-laws of the wife (the brothers of her husband or
his nephews etc.)?" The Prophet replied: The in-laws of the wife are death
itself.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 160:
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Narrated Ibn 'Abbas : The Prophet said, "No man should
stay with a lady in seclusion except in the presence of a Dhu-Muhram." A man
stood up and said, "O Allah's Apostle! My wife has gone out intending to
perform the Hajj and I have been enrolled (in the army) for such-and-such
campaign." The Prophet said, "Return and perform the Hajj with your wife."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 161:
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Narrated Anas bin Malik: An Ansari woman came to the
Prophet and he took her aside and said (to her). "By Allah, you (Ansar) are
the most beloved people to me."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 162:
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Narrated Um Salama: that while the Prophet was with her,
there was an effeminate man in the house. The effeminate man said to Um
Salama's brother, 'Abdullah bin Abi Umaiyya, "If Allah should make you
conquer Ta'if tomorrow, I recommend that you take the daughter of Ghailan
(in marriage) for (she is so fat) that she shows four folds of flesh when
facing you and eight when she turns her back." Thereupon the Prophet said
(to us), "This (effeminate man) should not enter upon you (anymore)."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 163:
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Narrated 'Aisha: The Prophet was screening me with his
Rida' (garment covering the upper part of the body) while I was looking at
the Ethiopians who were playing in the courtyard of the mosque. (I continued
watching) till I was satisfied. So you may deduce from this event how a
little girl (who has not reached the age of puberty) who is eager to enjoy
amusement should be treated in this respect.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 164:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Once Sada bint Zam'a went out at night
for some need, and 'Umar saw her, and recognizing her, he said (to her), "By
Allah, O Sada! You cannot hide yourself from us." So she returned to the
Prophet and mentioned that to him while he was sitting in my dwelling taking
his supper and holding a bone covered with meat in his hand. Then the Divine
Inspiration was revealed to him and when that state was over, he (the
Prophet was saying: "O women! You have been allowed by Allah to go out for
your needs."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 165:
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Narrated Salim's father: The Prophet said, "If the wife
of anyone of you asks permission to go to the mosque, he should not forbid
her."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 166:
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Narrated 'Aisha: My foster uncle came and asked
permission (to enter) but I refused to admit him till I asked Allah's
Apostle about that. He said, "He is your uncle, so allow him to come in." I
said, "O Allah's Apostle! I have been suckled by a woman and not by a man."
Allah's Apostle said, "He is your uncle, so let him enter upon you." And
that happened after the order of Al-Hijab (compulsory veiling) was revealed.
All things which become unlawful because of blood relations are unlawful
because of the corresponding foster suckling relations.
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 167:
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Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud: The Prophet said, "A woman
should not look at or touch another woman to describe her to her husband in
such a way as if he was actually looking at her."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 168:
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Narrated 'Abdullah: The Prophet said, "A woman should not
look at or touch another woman to describe her to her husband in such a way
as if he was actually looking at her."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 169:
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Narrated Abu Huraira: (The Prophet) Solomon son of (the
Prophet) David said, "Tonight I will go round (i.e. have sexual relations
with) one hundred women (my wives) everyone of whom will deliver a male
child who will fight in Allah's Cause." On that an Angel said to him, "Say:
'If Allah will.' " But Solomon did not say it and forgot to say it. Then he
had sexual relations with them but none of them delivered any child except
one who delivered a half person. The Prophet said, "If Solomon had said: 'If
Allah will,' Allah would have fulfilled his (above) desire and that saying
would have made him more hopeful."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 170:
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Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah: The Prophet disliked that
one should go to one's family at night (on returning from a journey).
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 171:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: Allah's Apostle said, "When
anyone of you is away from his house for a long time, he should not return
to his family at night."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 172:
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Narrated Jabir: I was with Allah's Apostle in a Ghazwa,
and when we returned, I wanted to hurry, while riding a slow camel. A rider
came behind me. I looked back and saw that the rider was Allah's Apostle .
He said (to me), "What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, "I am newly
married." He said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron?" I replied, "(Not a
virgin but) a matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl with whom
you could play and who could play with you?" Then when we approached
(Medina) and were going to enter (it), the Prophet said, "Wait till you
enter (your homes) at night (in the first part of the night) so that the
ladies with unkempt hair may comb their hair, and those whose husbands have
been absent (for a long time) may shave their pubic hair." (The
sub-narrator, Hashim said: A reliable narrator told me that the Prophet
added in this Hadith: "(Seek to beget) children! Children, O Jabir!")
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 173:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: The Prophet said, "If you
enter (your town) at night (after coming from a journey), do not enter upon
your family till the woman whose husband was absent (from the house) shaves
her pubic hair and the woman with unkempt hair, combs her hair" Allah's
Apostle further said, "(O Jabir!) Seek to have offspring, seek to have
offspring!"
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 174:
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Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: We were with the Prophet in
Ghazwa, and when we returned and approached Medina, I wanted to hurry while
riding a slow camel. A rider overtook me and pricked my camel with a spear
which he had, whereupon my camel started running as fast as any other fast
camel you may see. I looked back, and behold, the rider was Allah's Apostle
. I said, "O Allah's Apostle! I am newly married " He asked, "Have you got
married?" I replied, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied,
"(Not a virgin) but a matron" He said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so
that you could play with her and she with you?" When we reached (near
Medina) and were going to enter it, the Prophet said, "Wait till you enter
your home early in the night so that the lady whose hair is unkempt may comb
her hair and that the lady whose husband has been away may shave her pubic
hair."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 175:
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Narrated Abu Hazim: The people differed about the type of
treatment which had been given to Allah's Apostle on the day (of the battle)
of Uhud. So they asked Sahl bin Sad As-Sa'id who was the only surviving
Companion (of the Prophet) at Medina. He replied, "Nobody Is left at Medina
who knows it better than I. Fatima was washing the blood off his face and
'Ali was bringing water in his shield, and then a mat of date-palm leaves
was burnt and (the ash) was inserted into the wound."
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 176:
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Narrated 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Abis: I heard Ibn 'Abbas
answering a man who asked him, "Did you attend the prayer of 'Id al Adha or
'Id-al-Fitr with Allah's Apostle?" Ibn 'Abbas replied, "Yes, and had it not
been for my close relationship with him, I could not have offered it." (That
was because of his young age). Ibn 'Abbas further said, Allah's Apostle went
out and offered the Id prayer and then delivered the sermon." Ibn 'Abbas did
not mention anything about the Adhan (the call for prayer) or the Iqama. He
added, "Then the Prophet went to the women and instructed them and gave them
religious advice and ordered them to give alms and I saw them reaching out
(their hands to) their ears and necks (to take off the earrings and
necklaces, etc.) and throwing (it) towards Bilal. Then the Prophet returned
with Bilal to his house . "
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Volume 7, Book 62, Number 177:
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Narrated 'Aisha: Abu Bakr admonished me and poked me with
his hands in the flank, and nothing stopped me from moving at that time
except the position of Allah's Apostle whose head was on my thigh.
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The
Holy Quran Quotes
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“And they (polytheists, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allah and in His Messenger, Muhammad (saw) ) will not cease fighting you until they turn you back from your religion (Islamic Monotheism) if they can.”
(Al-Baqarah, 2:217)
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